Pampering & Self-Image for Intimacy

Pamper yourself and improve intimacy.
Pampering can play a key role in intimacy with your partner.

Feeling good about yourself is a part of the physical component of sex. While most people are always working on their weight and body shape, you may want to physically pamper yourself and your spouse to assist improve your sex life.

Pampering might make you and your lover feel more sultry. This may be as simple as taking a long, delicious perfumed bath, possibly with candles, a glass of wine, and some romantic music playing in the background. Consider getting a pedicure and manicure, going to the spa once or twice a month, or getting a facial on a regular basis.

Both men and women can experiment with a variety of scents, which can have a variety of affects on both their own and their partners’ moods. Because smell is one of the most basic senses, it can elicit vivid mental images, sentiments, and desires. Finding a scent that stimulates your partner can really assist to set the tone and make you feel amazing as well.

Taking care of your body is a great way to demonstrate how much you care about your relationship. Smoothing your elbows, knees, hands, and feet to create more softness during love and foreplay are some other minor things to try. There are several products on the market now that may help all skin types feel smooth and pleasant, whether or not they are scented. To avoid having too many various scents at once, use a non-scented skin cream or lotion if you’re wearing a favorite perfume or cologne.

You may also want to consider having a couple’s day at the spa as a way to pamper you both at the same time. Engage in some relaxing massages, facials and even a relaxing time in a sauna or one of the heated baths at the spa. You don’t need to do everything together, do something just for yourself and plan to make it a day of luxury and spending relaxing time together with the anticipation of a wonderful evening together when your spa day is done.